Don’t Scold Your Children
By Dalo All Sandrey B.
SI/10151010
In a marriage life, child always have some behavior that
can make their parents angry. For example is when children became fussy
for something they want, or when children very noisy but their parents want to
take a rest. And because of that sometimes parents release their anger with
someways like scolding, pinching, or maybe hitting their children. Actually,
this is a challange for parents, they must hold them self and be patient with
their children.
According to research, when parents scolding their children
would break neuron system in the brain of their children. In the fact an
intelligent children have many neuron system that connected to other neuron
system in their brain. Thats just one example of negative effect when parents
scolding their children. Another example is psychological effect, that can
decrease their self confidence, depression, and a trauma.
One of psyhological expert, Dr.
Setyo Mulyadi says, there is no reason for parents still use primitive ways to
express their anger, such as scolding, pinching, etc. Because although angry is nature of humane, but do not
use a method that can harm a children, thats a bad manners. More than
that do something lika that can slow down children development.
A good way to scolding children is
not to put them under pressure, because with that way can make them mentally
hurt. So use a method that can show our feelings. In this case, parents show that they are disturbed by
some action of their children. Don’t just accuse or hit them, because
some of their bad behavior.
So the conclusion is when educating
children, avoid use an action that can make a negative effect and influence
their psychology. Because, this some kind of action or method can lowers
intelligence and make a trauma to them. On my opinion, a little harsh action is needed when
educating children, this is to make a lesson for them. So they would know what are they
doing is a bad thing. But don’t use a very harsh action, just little one
like pinching.
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Yes, I agree with you. To educate children don't need to use violence, even though sometimes parents do need a little bit hard to educate children like scold their childrens, but it was all not to show if them anger, but to give their childrens lesson if what they did was wrong. Btw, nice article ^^
BalasHapusby Putri Handayani_10151038
the attitude of the child will usually follow the attitudes of parents. so parents should at least be able to provide the best for his son. so that in the future the children will be able to boast of his parents. Nicee~
BalasHapusI agree with your article, parents should teach their children with good method,to say "this is good or wrong" that later child is understand, and there are many good method to punish child other than by force.
BalasHapusi don't agree, if you never scold your child, their never know, what have they do was wrong
BalasHapusI do not agree with this article, because memarahai children can make a depressed child, if the child's good err in nasehatin well either. over time the child will realize themselves what they did was wrong
BalasHapusI agree with your article beecause it will affect the character when I grow upcause
BalasHapusParents have to know time to got a little bit rough and time to talk slowly with their child. It will make a respect from your child someday.
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